Chuck & Andy – a Classic Southern Groom and Groom wedding at The Umstead Hotel in Cary NC
The Umstead Hotel & Spa was the first venue that came to mind for these two handsome grooms who wanted a classy and sophisticated wedding. Chuck and Andy tied the knot with an outdoor ceremony and candlelit reception filled with sultry sophistication, perfected by their wedding coordinator, A Southern Soiree. This sophisticated same sex wedding was the definition of class and style with an A-list team, starting with the 5 Star Umstead Hotel, and finishing with their amazing artistic photographer, Adam Chapin.
Chuck Gavazzi and Andy Pacos met at work, where they are both VPs within the same national emergency medicine management company. For nearly a year Chuck noticed Andy around the hospital. Finally, a real conversation led to a first date. When Andy toasted to “new friendships,” Chuck knew he was in for the long haul, and years later, when Andy proposed, Chuck’s reply was “Absolutely.”
5 Star Wedding at the 5 Star Umstead Hotel
They knew they wanted their wedding to have the utmost class and sultry sophistication. They booked The Umstead Hotel & Spa knowing it is renowned for impeccable service, which the couple noted they received, mentioning that “the staff of the Umstead did not miss a beat.”

NC Same Sex Wedding Photographer Brings Memories to Life
Adam Chapin Photography is known for his moody and artistic style. This NC wedding photographer strives to capture moments in a wedding that the couple might not even remember. We love the depth of his work and his unique editing style.
“A good photographer is a big deal. Adam Chapin Photography truly conveyed the emotion of the day and captured the essence of who we are as a couple.”
Masculine Same Sex Wedding Designed by Top NC Wedding Planner
The decor had a woodsy outdoor look with moss coverings, accented with lots of candles in varying heights. This gave this same sex wedding an elegant yet masculine look, perfect for the upscale taste of these grooms.
Chuck and Andy had a custom design of their initials in elements of the wedding beginning with the invitations and menus. The dance floor of the Umstead Hotel’s beautiful ballroom was lit up by Raleigh specialty event rental company, Themeworks.
“A good wedding planner is worth a million dollars. A Southern Soiree took care of every detail of our Umstead Hotel wedding, from surprises such as custom made look-a-like cookies and light up tambourines to all the handling of the wedding day – we can not say enough great things about Megan.”
These custom wedding cookies are the perfect accent for a same sex wedding! How much do they really look like the grooms?
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WEDDING COORDINATOR: A Southern Soiree | PHOTOGRAPHER: Adam Chapin Photography | VENUE, FOOD & ACCOMMODATIONS: The Umstead Hotel & Spa | LIGHTING: Themeworks























